Profile Tips 

To help you get the most out of your profile we at Avante swingers have listened to other swingers and their experiences. What they like to see on a profile, what puts them off and what works for them. 

Be honest! Your profile aim is to attract people to you with a view to meeting them so honesty is a key theme. Don’t be tempted to make a profile like a C.V. We all know a C.V. exaggerates to enhance what you really are but this isn’t a good idea in swinging. Honesty is appreciated more than anything so be straight forward. A swinger will be unhappy to meet you only to find out you are nothing like your profile’s description. Then again don’t play yourself down too much and under sell yourself. It is not a precise science and there are no guarantees in what will work. Bear in mind that what may work for some people may not work for others. 

Be confident. Swingers are not looking for super models and super studs. A lot of swingers like variety and swingers come in all shapes and sizes. It is not essential to have a 9” appendage or gigantic boobs. You don’t need to be a size 8 or have rippling muscles. If you are a BBW be proud of that. Lots of swingers love BBWs. Confidence and being approachable are far more attractive to swingers. 

Use humour. Don’t fill your profile with gags and jokes and one-liners but a subtle piece of humour can show you have a relaxed and fun side to you. 

Stick to the point. Keep things relevant and try to use no more than three short paragraphs. State who you are and what you are like, what you do and enjoy doing and lastly what you want. 

Add media. Try to add at least two recent photographs of yourself. If you want to put a genital photo on try to accompany it with a face picture or a full-length body shot. If you are a single male don’t try to put photos of single females on your profile to show who you have met. Always ensure that if you are going to show a photo with someone else in it that you have his or her permission. If you meet people and they take photos ask for a copy of the images and ask if they would mind if you used certain photos on your profile. 

Be open. Choosing the ‘rather not say’ option in answer to a question will lead people to assume the worst-case scenario. 

If there is any way you can accommodate then do mention it. Try to look at it that being only able to travel or only able to accommodate is restricting your options. If you can do both you could be doubling your chances. 

Do not claim to be Bi-sexual if you’re not. Some people will claim to be bi-sexual to meet a couple and only play with one half of them. It is vital to be sure of what you are and what you’re prepared to do. See it as dishonest and bear in mind at all times that swinging is about honesty. 

Read other peoples profiles. If you see something you like that relates to you and describes things in a way you like then use that as inspiration for your own profile. 

Try to be made genuine once you have met other swingers. This can help a great deal. You have been endorsed and they are basically agreeing with what has been written on your profile. 

If you have met other swingers invite them to join your friends network. This is another way of endorsing your profile and showing that you are genuine. The more friends you have the more people are agreeing that you are genuine. Don’t send friends invites to people you don’t know. It is unfair to ask someone to endorse your profile if they don’t know you. 

Do not mention other people in your profile unless they are happy for you to do so. Name-dropping is seen as cashing in on someone else’s reputation. If you want someone to feature on your profile invite him or her to join your friends network. 

State clearly whether you are single or a couple. If you are a couple but you only play alone then there is no necessity to mention your partner. Again people may see this as misleading.

Contact us if you are really struggling and we will do our best to help you create a profile that suits you and that other swingers will want to make contact with.

Avante Swingers©